You cannot fix another person’s pain, and you do not have to. What helps most is a steady, non-judgemental presence.
Ask open questions. Avoid rushing to silver linings. Offer practical help: a meal, a ride, sitting together during a difficult evening. Encourage professional support without making it a threat.
Take care of yourself too. Supporting someone is meaningful work, and you are allowed to seek guidance from helplines and clinicians. Connection heals more than advice does.

